Another point back to the topic of love would take care of your interest in what the other person interested, not on what matters to you that you are interested, obviously above all, without losing your identity. This transpires that to many people it happens to them, are unable to leave wanting to themselves for a moment, are not able to get out of their environment, are not able to understand others occupying the foreground of his life themselves exclusively monopolizing conversations mostly in that part, it could be said that are extremely selfish, especially if we are talking about couple. Perhaps to be at ease in couple must learn to develop the capacity to love, abandon the expectation of finding perfection, balance between disinterested delivery and own your own needs satisfaction that you reported the other, development of intuition, listening to the language of the body, the senses and let flow into the relationship, work with the difficulties of giving and receiving medidamente love begins with the discovery of the essence of the other, if I just want to fit to each other in my ideas and my world the relationship is doomed to fail, it must be a step forward in the discovery of the other and the decision to not be the same from now on, will never again be the same person. But that begins a journey into the unknown for both, in which two people discover more of your identity, share it and walk together to grow new ways that they discover, not by the small little world of one of them, the roads are new for both, so the challenge is set. It must take into account the different levels of consciousness or evolution of each in order to fit into your life or being anchored to another person in a mature relationship: there are two types of ways of seeing the world globally or focused and that would be a connection point.