This article is to analyze how it influences the arrival of the couple's children, and how becoming a parent is a stressful situation that not everyone is able to navigate properly. This is evidenced by leaving certain letters revealed in the tarot of love. One of the most frequent reasons for consulting the tarot of love is the state of marriage, the couple's formal long. And one of the components that are usually present in such situations are the children. We know that the arrival of the offspring at home complicate things, and often trigger situations that were previously dormant, but with the disturbing presence of family balance often represent small, these small cracks get bigger and in many cases, mark the end of the couple. So they come to the circulation of the tarot of love many people worried because the couple fight more, have less patience, and these small gestures of love that were always present before, suddenly cease to become evident, leading to a cold coexistence.

The reality is that not all people are ready for the hard work of parenting. It is possible, then, that the new responsibilities of overwhelm, and not find peace which used to be in the family. So many times in the tarot cards reveal love as the inverted trolley, which tells of an effort that we will not always get what we want, which is in vain, or hanging, so well illustrated that we announced that the consultants are tied hand and foot, and are powerless to change the situation. Another factor that influences the jealousy. It is not unusual that one of the two feel jealous of the love that the other spouse for the children, or a child in particular.

In these cases, the circulation of the tarot of love is an excellent opportunity to discuss these issues are not always brought to light, because that is not deep in conversation and can embitter life, and bring a marriage that loves to ruin. Thus, inverted Temperance can account for this lack of success in trying to combine both roles by the person making the query to the tarot of love: the impossibility of fulfilling the role of parents, coupled with the obligations that the role of husband or wife involved. The arrival of children requires a great deal of maturity and wisdom to navigate those waters that are fast paternity. Definitely not for everyone that becoming parents, despite the culture we want to impose this model. That is, not everyone is born knowing innately parenting, and faced with this situation may bring more grief than joy.